I have a weird thing where I look at an incredibly gorgeous woman, someone conventionally attractive that possesses a slim, fit body that would make a majority of men drop to their knees in worship and I say she’s too attractive.  In some ways I don’t even know what that means, because what am I saying?  She’s too attractive for what?  How can someone be too attractive?  What I mean is that she’s too unachievable.

Of course a woman being unachievable isn’t always a problem for a lot of men, in fact that’s part of the point of the attraction.  But for me, cock in hand, I’ll look at a woman and think, “yeah, no, she’s too pretty/too hot/too whatever.”

It takes away the realism in my mind of fucking her.  That’s silly to say, the realism isn’t working for a fantasy, but it’s where my mind ends up.

So, from that she’s too hot I think I’ve developed a fetish for women that I have a few different names for but for lack of a better term I often call real girls, or generically referring to a woman that fits this category as soft.  

Another term I had also used on my bdsmlr account is chubby, but I often find this misleading.  Chubby feels like it's going too far to describe the excess that the soft women have, although at the same time I think that chubby is accurate in a sense, just that the word has taken on a too negative tone.  A chubby girl is usually considered, by me, to be extremely attractive from the neck down (the neck up is usually independent of her chubbiness) so I have used it but often prefer the term soft.

I suppose there already is a name for this sort of, amateur, and with the more accepted that OnlyFans is becoming I suppose that the genre is becoming a much more popular fetish in a way that I probably don’t need to create an entirely new, unimaginative name for it, but who gives a shit, right?  There are enough hot, young, incredibly attractive women that are fit as fuck and have incredibly fit bodies all over the place that are saturating the internet with their tits, ass and pussies.  The soft bodied girls are still an off normal variety that they’re still unique enough to invent a personal term to call.

A soft bodied woman is a woman who, when she sits, has extra sagging of the belly where it creates a bit of a pouch, or gut in front of her.  You can typically grab it with your hands as if it were a handle, either in the front or on the side.  Not quite rubenesque, but certainly on her way to being the feature of voluptuousness.  She would fit in quite well with the old paintings of women half naked and with beautiful curves to squeeze and hold onto.

The women who have these soft bodies often are accompanied by large, succulent breasts.  Ideally she would be seen on her hands and knees with her breasts hanging down and her nipples not quite grazing the floor.  She is the epitome of the Mommy? Sorry. Mommy? Sorrymeme.  She is the Mommy fetish, often featured in fantasies involving her mothering an individual in an overly sexual way.  Stroking his cock and rubbing his body as he’s pressed in tight to her soft, warm, bosom.  Often suckling her breasts and nursing while she soothes both by touch and from her soft, nurturing voice.  Who wouldn’t want to be jerked off by a pretty girl with large breasts as she told you what a good job you were doing while suckling her tits?

They don’t always have to have large breasts though.  Some soft bodied women can still be paunchy with large, cellulite adorned thighs while having breasts that fit entirely in the palm of your hand.  As they saddle themselves in your lap and bounce their fleshy ass cheeks up and down on your cock, their tiny breasts bounce and jiggle like Jello shaking on an upset table.  They’re just as fun to pull at the nipples and prick them until they’re hard, then suckle as they bounce on you while you fuck.

The only requirement is that she has a pretty face.  A pretty face can overcome anything.  A pretty face can enhance everything.  A soft woman with a pretty face is just as fuckable and yearn inducing as one with a fit body.  They induce different reactions and desires but they both create want in a man, whether that want is to bend them over the table and fuck them, eat their ass and pussy or just suck on their tits until he falls asleep.  It’s all the same sexual satisfaction that is desired, just manifested in a different way.

This, of course, is all being said from a specific male gaze (I really hate that term.  Male gaze, female gaze, anything gaze.  It’s useful but I just find it obnoxious, maybe because of how much it's caught on and used way too much.  Anyways).  Mine.  I’m not saying this is the only way to think or see a woman, it's just how I, sexually, enjoy their form.  

There are other uses for a soft woman which often do not include the fit woman, mostly involving more extreme fetishes such a hucow (human-cow hybrid) fantasies and, as previously mentioned, Mommy fetishes.  A soft, supple woman with a squeezable body is easy to imagine as a mother or as a lactating humanoid cow.  They’re much easier to picture for anyone with a pregnancy fetish, with her large belly easier to picture hanging low as she props herself up on her hands and knees while being fucked in the only position comfortable for her at later stages.  The soft woman is a virile goddess of fertility which is loosely related to being goddess of sex, while the active and fit woman is more apt to be a goddess of war or strength.  It’s easy to see why a soft woman is a much more ideal sex fantasy than a fit one.

Let her press her breasts in your face and whisper soft cooing in your ear as you relax and sink into pleasure.  Feel the soft cushion of her skin and the loud slapping of your body against her as you fuck wildly, the bouncing of her breasts hypnotizing you.  I’ve fully given myself into these gorgeous, soft bodied women.  Their sexuality is overwhelming and I often find them the most attractive even when fully clothed.  I can’t help but steal an extra glance when I watch a girl in an oversized sweater as she’s obviously trying to hide that extra bit of curviness that she wishes she could shed but that so many men would die to follow.