I’m thinking about going to an escort.  I’ve long been fascinated with sex workers and have been very pro sexwork.  Most of that support has been because I just love beautiful women and fantasize about possibility of being able to fuck them.  All of them.  But I’m also pro sex positivity and these women are using their beauty, and men’s horniness, to their advantage.  So I say, good for them!

The thought of meeting a beautiful woman for sex is fun, but the actual act of going through with it is terrifying.  It’s funny how it is probably the same for the sexworker as well, but I guess they get into a groove and I have yet to find mine.  I was nervous just to reach out and fill out her initial contact message.  Of course, as is common with me, I was very long winded and had to erase a ton of what I said because it was well over the 1000 character limit.  I wanted to make sure I got across my personality of an innocent loser who just wants some female company, in bed.

What surprised me the most while looking into it was that the price was actually quite reasonable.  As I said, I had long been fascinated with sex workers and had never really been able to find a price range of what it would cost to see one.  I had always assumed they would be outrageously expensive and it was never something I was going to be able to do unless I became rich somehow (that was always a fantasy of mine, becoming rich and having a regular sex work fund to hire my favorite sex workers on a regular basis).

A long time ago, ten or so years but maybe more, I found a girl on Craigslist who just happened to be visiting locally and she was about a 5-7 minute drive from me visiting and staying in a hotel nearby.  I don’t remember the specifics but it seemed kind of sketchy because she said she was bored or something.  I think she said she was with her family or something and snuck out.  I was instantly skeptical but wanted to see how real this person was, so I asked for a picture.

She sent me a picture of a girl in a bathroom, so I asked if she minded verifying it was her by writing the date on a piece of paper and holding it up.  To my surprise, she did it and it was the same girl.  Now, I had less than a 5% chance of actually meeting this girl because for one, I had no cash on me and I was married at the time so anything taken out of the bank account would have had a red flag run up as soon as my wife checked the account.  Secondly, I didn’t want to get murdered or arrested, but I was at work and bored as well so I wanted to see how far I could take this and I asked her how much.

We negotiated the meeting to either $200 or $250.  I would pull up in my car, flash my lights towards the lobby and she would come out and we would fuck in my car.  I had never had sex in my car at this point in my life but the thought seemed fun, however there were red flags all over this.  For starters, the girl looked young and if I remember correctly she was in her early 20s and maybe was even 19, although I don’t think so.  That might explain why she thought having sex for $200-$250 would have been fine, she didn’t know how much a girl would be able to get, but she did it so casually that she had to have done it before and therefore should know how much she could get.

The overwhelming feeling was that this was some kind of set up where I would pull up, flash my lights and a couple of guys would come out from behind some cars and jack me for the money.  There was no way I was going through with this.  She was too young, looked like she had a great body even if I couldn’t see her face and the price was too reasonable.  That had been the extent of my interactions with a sex worker, or possible sex worker for a while.

Eventually I stumbled across sex work twitter, which was a lot of fun.  This was when Craigslist was still a thing and before the US started clamping down on anything and everything to do with sex work.  The women were beautiful, they were funny as hell, they were charming and smart and I loved being a fly on the wall of sex work twitter.  I had even found one local (Halifax) incredibly sexy woman who is probably the top tier SWer in the city and followed her, even having a few interactions with her on twitter.  She was kind enough to reply back to me even if I was going to be unable to partake in her services, mainly because I was over an hour away from where she was.

Then, suddenly, recently, I stumbled across a site called lyla.ch, which then led me to a site called tryst.link.  I had actually found the girl I’ve reached out to on the lyla.ch site but then found her on the tryst.link site.  Who knew there was basically a tinder for sex workers?  I’m sure most people know this but whatever, I love it.

So it had all of the information I was looking for that I could never find.  Location, rates, experiences.  The only thing it didn’t have that I would have loved were reviews, but lyla.ch seems to have that part available if I’m willing to do a bit of research.  I was shocked to find out that the $200-$250 the girl ten years ago was offering was actually pretty reasonable for around here because the girl I’ve reached out to isn’t too much further beyond that if you take into consideration inflation over the ten plus years.  

I’ve reached out to her.  My name, age, location, what I’m looking for, time range and date.  It feels like I’m liking someone on tinder and waiting for them to reply back because I keep checking to see if she’s gotten back to me yet.  My only downfall is going to be how she wants a deposit because I’m not sure how I’m going to get it to her.  I plan on dealing mostly in cash because, well, of reasons I haven’t gotten into yet.  I have a generic visa gift card, so hopefully that will work because if not then this might fizzle out before it starts.

I’m excited though, nervously excited, so I hope it all works.  The thought of being able to spend an hour with a gorgeous woman in bed is thrilling.  It’s going to be like Christmas and my birthday, but better.  I’m already thinking about how often I would be able to see her, depending on how often she’s in the area.  Not me getting ahead of myself as usual, is it?

I’ll update when there’s something to update about.  It might not happen, although I’ve got the money set aside for it.  It might happen and be nothing like I think it will be, although just the ability to lay naked with a woman in bed and have her touch me would be better than anything I’ve got going on now.  I don’t know, but it’s something I’m really looking forward to so I hope it all works out.